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What does it mean to be a twin? |
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From observations of our twins and talking to adult twins, we offer these insights, from both sides of the coin:
- They get a lot of attention.
- They have a companion of the same age and usually the same general interests.
- They can borrow each other's clothes, toys, etc.
However...
- The closeness of twinship can lead to a feeling of lost identity.
- If identical, it's hard to tell them apart for family and friends.
- Disputes over personal belongings, friends, and shared activities can be common.
- Too much public attention.
- Too many comparisons.
- Competition between the two.
Even though being a twin can have its difficulties, it can be a fun and happy experience for our children. It's up to the parents to help them find the balance between dependence and companionship.
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